What is Chastity?


The term “chastity” is often misunderstood in our society. Some think that it means abstaining from sex for life, while others mistake it for celibacy. But chastity is not about saving sex to save a marriage. In fact, sex is a sacred act, and we must keep it sanctified for the sake of our children.

One theory is that chastity is a natural decency in control of the sexual appetite. The sacrament of marriage emulates the unending love of God. And by living a chaste life, the temporal pleasures of sexual desire are transformed into spiritual permanence. But why is chastity so valuable? Is it a “get” or a “keep”? Chastity cannot be “got” or manipulated.

In other words, chastity is an act of temperance. This means regulating the desire for and use of sensual pleasures, such as food, drink, and union of sexes. Chastity is closely related to abstinence, which is the control over pleasures of nutritive functions. Chastity restricts procreative appetite, and it’s the latter that is sacred.

Another common misconception is that married people can’t have sex. They can still engage in sexual contact with their spouse, but they must control their own energy through transmutation techniques like mantra and meditation. Then, once they get married, they return to a life of chastity. Chastity is one of the seven virtues in the Christian tradition. It’s an ideal that can help you cultivate your mind and spiritual life.